I'll just add to this plea a recommendation.
Don't write anything on this forum that you wouldn't say to the other person face-to-face sitting in their living room.
With this as a guide, we'll all find this a much more useful and civilized place to exchange ideas.
Michael
That won't always work either as when in real life people ask me for my opinion and I then give my views, they usually take offence if it isn't sycophantic praise.
You see the same thing online as many people simply want others to agree with them and when others proffer alternative and equally valid or simply different views all hell can break loose.
If people were more accepting of a variety of opinions, then that would make for les conflict. Online you are more likely to interact with others whoose views differe as in real life the people you you choose to mix with tends to self select to those of a similar mindset. Hence whuy online forums can become very fractious.
There are local forums for towns in the UK where you get a real variety of people mixing and there is constant bickering between the racists and the non-racists who in real life would rarely meet and discuss such divisive topics.
But then there are complete jerks who don't understand or are not interested in a reasoned debate or heaven forbid facts.
But the biggest cause of internet bickering are the people who don't read posts properly and then reply with equal lack of thought to their own replies. I gave up on LL for a while due to the plethora of such illiterate fools. I always read and reread before replying, just to try and make sure I don't misread the post or the tone of the post. So I only read forums as a break and when I'm not distracted by anything else. Too many people very obviously fire off quick replies whilst they are meant to be working and not wittering online.