I would suggest to rethink the website a bit... right now it is messy in terms of usability and design... it doesn't look like a photographers website at all... I think if you bring the content that you like up to the front page, it would be an easier sell... right now it's not the most enticing way into your site.
flash gallery vs html gallery: I have no idea why you would need both... the flash gallery looks puny, and I don't digg the constant frame resizing when you switch from one photo to the other... the html gallery is even worse, and looks like something straight out of photoshop html export... overall, I think that in 2009 photographers can afford to show much nicer and bigger photos... I do believe that the work should be the center of attention, and not the frame/engine around it. you have nice work up there, you definitely should flaunt it more. and please get rid of the music, unless it is your own.