You are absolutely right.
You know what?: I will leave this particular topic and look for my 10days-new-born daughter. This is much more fun, much more rewarding and less subject to blames.
This are the wisest words and the smartest conclusion. Enjoy every second of it does not last long.
My daughter was ten days old yesterday and today she already argues with me ( 2 and 1/2 years old ). I went through this process four times already and I can guarantee it to you that there is nothing more rewarding. Your aggravation here will trickle down home and infants are like sponges, they will absorb and respond to your moods. These are mostly fruitless discussion here between people who either do not have 10 days old daughters or simply can not enjoy much anyways. I heavily limited my participation here as I found myself to busy with rapidly growing business and to happy in general to influence myself with mostly pointless repetitions.
See you soon and the best of luck.