Not meaning to insult anyone but it is just perspective, with film I shot MF and LF, thinking 35mm was just not enough real estate for fine prints, but I would not go as far as saying 35mm was a toy....different needs = different tools...
I have always found Mr Wienke a little brusk and try to stay out of his line of fire. He is a wealth of knowledge and has offered mostly good advice. He seems to have a very high opinion of himself, his own business, just an observation, but his manner can be off putting, and for many his good parts get lost in the noise. If you visit his blog you will find out that there have been some health issues recently, not an excuse, but maybe a reason why he does not suffer ignorance or foolishness so well. ...hope I have not been out of line with talking about a poster, but trying to give some background and balance, and NO we are not friends.. and the info is on the web, placed there by him....on his blog...fwiw
lastly what I was told and what I told my kids when they were young is "use your words, don't let them use you" not always easy but usually works...