At last! I got it to work properly. So here's what happened...
I had a Netgear Wirless router for my house system, even though my Mac is connected directly to the net. When I got the printer, I bought the Airport Express. Could not get it to work, except with USB cable, and it was dreadfully slow. Very frustrated at this point.
So for grins, I took my Netgear wireless Router (not a print server), plugged it into the 3800, made sure the network settings were correct, and yea!, it appeared in my print and fax settings in OSX. So I tried it and it worked great... printed fast too.
So, to replace my router I just took, I went and bought a new netgear wireless router. Configured it properly and set it up. The router worked fine on my wife's PC but with both Netgear routers on in the house, for some reason, I could not print wirelessly anymore. Tried some other things and it didnt work.
So, I returned the Netgear Router and Bought a Belkin instead (just hoping it wouldnt interfere with my old Netgear router). I set it up and everything works great. I can print wirelessly and my wife can connect to our home wireless net, no problem.
So, I have a Belkin for my house, and a Netgear router for my printer. Wew. what a pain....
Hope this helps somebody someday!
Randal
randalford.com