First, profile your monitor with a hardware device like EyeOne, or what you see on the monitor is meaningless. After that, it is simply a matter of getting an accurate profile for your camera. An accurate profile is the only way to get color fidelity; the main difference between the "look" of one digital camera and another is the accuracy of the profile used to convert the RAW sensor data to RGB. ACR has pretty decent built-in profiles that can be tweaked pretty flexibly in the Calibration tab, and Capture One allows you to use your own ICC profiles. Profiling your camera is not a trivial task, but is the only way to get 100% dead-on accurate color.