Thanks for the info about it not being a bee, it's about 40% if not less the size of bee. I'm probably as far away as Pluto when it's about insects, I'm just illiterate no less.
But they make awesome picture, that's all I know.
I gave a try to Focus Magic on this image and it's quite possible it uses some sort of deconvolution kernel but I don't really care about that. You'll be the judge of the result but I had to stack the result of FM on top of the original and use a mask to do selective "sharpening", it was what I wanted for the fly and flower, note that I called it a fly now, just joking but for the background it didn't work for me, way to much noise. Maybe there is still to much, I did this fast and dirty.
To me it still look a bit fuzzy but I'll admit it's better then it was. Do you agree?
I'm seeing new post as I write this, so I'll do as suggested and essentially try to get the focus right the next time.
Thanks you all