After a bit more research (and as sggested by Farmer), it appears that this "flash" or "flicker" behavior when navigating web pages has been reported more and more lately by users around the 'net. It is NOT unique to a specific browser, though some browsers may be more susceptible to the problem depending on design and internal handling of the data from the server. I've now tried various versions of Firefox, Internet Explorer, Microsoft Edge, and Google Chrome here on this forum and ALL of these browsers exhibit the problem. An additional data point is that it does not always happen when navigating to a new page. I've not been able to find a pattern, but sometimes the new page loads cleanly without any flash. I'd say for me about 85% of the time I get the gray flash on the LuLa forum site. It could simply be related to variances in available network bandwidth, server performance, and browser performance from moment to moment. What IS clear to me is that the problem is more noticeable on the LuLa forum site than anywhere else. In fact, I've never really noticed it anywhere else.
Reports on the 'net indicate that the problem results from performance issues in how the browser is processing the HTML, images, CSS, Javascript, etc. that is coming from the server. A common issue apparently is that the browsers are trying to render the page before the full style sheet has been downloaded.
I know that the gray flash is coming from the LuLa SMF theme which has a dark gray default background. Have you considered testing a change of background color of the LuLa SMF theme to match the predominant light yellow-ish gray being used for the forum pages? That way you would reduce the jarring effect of dark -> light transition which is the most annoying aspect of this problem when loading a new page. And FWIW here's a list of suggested ways to address the "flashing" problem that I came across while researching:
Enable Compression on the Tomcat server (or whatever server is being used)
Implement Caching Filter
Dividing the pages in Divs
Including the Java Scripts at the end of the page
Setting the Background color on Body of java server pages
Put Style Sheets at the top in java server pages
Remove duplicate scripts in java server pages
Ensure that pages have only one DOCTYPE, HTML, Head and Body tags
Use GET in place of POST for fetching data requests
I'm just trying to help with ideas here, not trying to tell you how to run the site. I'm hoping that you will continue to look at making some improvement on this if possible.
Thanks