I got used to quick editing because of my work. There never was time for second guesses. It was often clients who picked the wrong shots, but they still had to be offered them or they'd think I'd just gone on holiday again... (that should ring a bell in some dark heart).
Picking thirteen images for a calendar was easy after a week or two-week shoot. But offering the money-man only thirteen images wouldn't have gone down very well at all.
I think I still 'work' like that for myself: I look at a lot of things through the camera that I don't shoot. But usually, I do end up working up all that I shoot. Very occasionally I stop halfway through processing and say forget it: it sucks, don't waste more of your time on the mother. In truth, that's more often due to technical reasons: I love black/white a lot more than I care for colour, though some stuff can only live in colour, of course. But, doing a conversion sometimes just looks shitty: some tones of digital grey won't translate properly, especially in faces, and though it may be my shortcoming as a PS user, it makes no difference: in the situation, it doesn't fly. So it dies.
But as to whether others dig it nor not: as long as I like it, that's it. I have no interest in post-mortems and second-guesses from people who were not in the moment and cannot see through my eyes anyway. A recent case of that, with one of Russ's shots of neo- (and possibly fake) vagrants (her soles were relatively clean) illustrated perfectly the pointlessness of second-guessing.
If you are in photography for yourself, please yourself: you are the one who counts, not some unknown guy with a cup of cold tea.
Rob