LR should identify the "Suspected" duplicates even if you rename when importing. There is a field in the database "importHash" that includes the original filename and it looks that it is the field used for comparing duplicates or "suspected duplicates"
The following is the "supposed" Lightroom criteria for duplicates:
Duplicates: Same Path, Filename (original), size and timestamp
Suspected duplicates: Same Filename (original), size and timestamp
So the difference between duplicates and suspected duplicates should be the path (drive/folders)
Also the standard "shift" command does not work. So I can not unclick all the images, then select the first new image, then "shift" select the last new image.
In the import dialog, uncheck all, then click on the first image border (the grey area), then shift-click on the last desired image (again in the grey area) now tick the box on the upper left, you should have the desired images selected. You can also ctrl-click or cmd-click in the grey area to select non-contiguous images