The statement " We do not give Leaf shutter actuations to dealer/customer" came right out of Margaret's ( Phase One, New York) mouth on a phone conversation with me about 2 months ago when my lens's were in for service. The same was told to Chris w/ CI. Kind of odd but being the XF displays that info, issue solved...LOL
This is what I get for reading a thread at 10pm on a Sunday. Somehow managed to miss (though it was stated several times) that you were talking about LENS actuations and not BODY actuations.
Leaf Shutter lenses with firmware 2.0 and higher can have their leaf shutter shot counts read by an XF body. We'd be glad to do this as a free service to any of our clients who have a DF+ body (which cannot read lens shot counts) and a lens they are curious about.
As suggested by my right-answer-wrong-question post earlier, the DF+ could not show the body shot count through the user interface (but could be read out during a service check). But the XF does show the body shot count (actually it separately displays mirror actuations and focal plane shutter actuations, since they are independent on the XF).