I asked our Mac tech, and his advice is the same as Hans -- get the 15 inch, with the i7 processors and the separate graphics processor. The i7 processors do hyperthreading, which is beyond my small brain but he says it's faster, and the separate GPU is faster for both graphics and apps that use the GPU like Lightroom. Yes, it's $400 more for the separate GPU, and he suggests paying the extra $200 for the upgraded processor speed (2.8gHz) especially if this will replace a desktop.
I would get the 500GB drive simply because all my photos are stored on a server -- I've been using a 256 and it's been mostly fine, 500GB would be plenty. (And let's face it, 1TB isn't enough to store any sort of photo collection anyway in the long run. Maybe if you do a LOT of traveling.)
If you really want the 13 inch for size, upgrade to the fastest i7 processor and get the 16GB of RAM.
The i7 not only does hyper threading but also it has twice as many cores as the 13". Lightroom does use 4 cores easily and does speed up the machine a lot compared to the dual core 13". The 2.8Ghz version is only marginally faster although I did choose this one this time around.
The 500GB might or might not be the right solution. A couple of factors to consider:
1) If the machine is a desktop replacement as well, then how many documents, e-mail etc. do you want to have on the internal drive which you would have on the road as well. Some things are just so much easier to have on the internal drive than to have on external drives.
2) If you fill up an SSD too much then the speed goes down dramatically For a 500GB drive I would recommend to keep at least 80-100GB free.
3) When you are on the road and shoot a lot you might get 100-200GB of RAW files and what else is perhaps edited.
4) How many of previous shoots would you like to have on the internal drive to edit in free time on the couch without having an external drive hanging off the machine?
So yes, one can do with less but I'm not suggesting that an entire photo collection would be on the internal drive. In my office I have a Thunderbolt LaCie RAID-1 drive for the re4st of my photo collection. I like to keep the most recent photo folders on the internal drive. I do travel a lot and needs vary, but at least it is worth considering these things as the SSD cannot be upgraded! Typically it takes a couple of years before 3rd party SSD drives are available for upgrades. External drives is nice to avoid unless you sit a a desk in an office, just my opinion.